Color Combination Fashion for Your Teen

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Part of your job as a parent is to teach your teen how to develop their own fashion sense. Now, they are going to learn a great deal of trend information from their misguided friends and you are going to see it reflected in their wardrobe. Some of it will make you shake your head, but if you want to stick with your teen through their lean fashion years, you need to know how to shop for them. That means learning their color combinations and fashion sense.

First rule is that most teens like to experiment with their color combinations. It’s like playing dress up for Halloween. It’s certainly something that they are going to get a kick out of doing. That means you are going to have to think off the beaten path and go with non-traditional matching colors. Unless your child is into black, go with neons and loud, expressive colors. You child will want to be who they are.

If you are looking for things that your child will be interested in, go for non-traditional patterns. While they say never to wear stripes that are in different directions (i.e vertical vs. horizontal) you can try something like that and you might find that the contrast is something that they will like. If they are a traditional fashion person then your job gets much easier.

Your teen is going to find that their color combination is something they have to craft over time and they will. You just have be there to guide them.

The Fashion of the Day

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Sometimes it seems as if there’s nothing new under the sun. While one company goes out of business and another is created somewhere else, ultimately the clothes usually turn out roughly the same year after year. Other than avant garde fashions that come and go at random, there is not that much originality in the fashion world. So it makes sense people are so grounded in the moment, when it comes to the clothes they’re wearing.

What is popular today is ultimately going to be known as ugly and ridiculous in a few years, if not a few months. The fashion world is so grounded in the moment because there is the silent recognition that today is a fleeting part of a neverending journey. When you look back at pictures of yourself a few years down the line, you are supposed to be a little horrified at what you see. This keeps you humble, and allows you to have a good laugh at who you used to be, even if you were 20 pounds lighter back then.

So enjoy today’s fashions, and be careful to keep a few “evergreen” outfits in your closet. While most fashions will be gone the next time the wind blows with particular fierceness, a few things are never going out of style. Jeans and a t-shirt, a basic sport coat and a little black dress are just a few examples of some veritable rocks of the fashion world. From a base of those few items, you can rebuild your ensemble no matter what the future might bring. This is good, because fashion never looks far ahead.

Who was Kokichi Mikimoto?

Kokichi Mikimoto was a man with a vision.  His dream was to make the first man made pearl and adorn the necks of women all over the world with these beautiful and elegant gems.  He became known as the inventor of the pearl when he cultured his first man made pearl in 1893.

He went onto create and design many stunning works of art and won many awards for his pearls.  He was precise and exacting in his quest for perfection and it is his unwavering insistence on strict evaluation that knows no compromise that has earned him the DeBeers Diamond International Award in 1969.

This visionary inventor of cultured pearls went onto adorned famous women the world over with the mysterious gems of the seas.  He opened his first store in Japan in 1899 and soon followed with international renowned boutiques all over the world.  First in London in 1913, then Paris and quickly stores opened in all the major fashion cities of the world.

Today he known as the foremost producer of high quality pearls and the leading designer in exquisite jewelry.  His high standards set so long ago still exist today with strict quality controls at every stage of production and design.   From the delicate pink tinge of the Akoya oysters to the rare and valuable peacock green of the black lipped oyster, to wear a Mikimoto pearl is wear a little bit of the mystery of the ocean.

Choosing to Enter Rehab

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Choosing to enter a rehab program is a tough, personal decision. While the end result will likely help the person seeking to rehab some aspect of their life, the steps along the way are fraught with challenge. Rehab is really only for those who actively desire to implement change into their lives. It takes a huge personal commitment to step up to the challenges inherent in facing the problems that got you to a rehab center’s doorstep in the first place. Once you begin to face your problems, it is sometimes hard to learn new coping skills fast enough to make them practical solutions towards helping you cope with the issues which come up during treatment.

It is good to walk into a rehab center of your own volition, rather than being forced to attend by a judge. Anytime someone is forced into rehab, it’s easy to predict that their rate of recidivism will be higher than those who enter voluntarily. Being forced to do something to stay out of jail or to avoid community service hours is a recipe for failure. Life changes which rehab engenders will most often only be adopted by those who enter with an open mind – one which desires to break cycles and patterns on learned behavior.

Whether one is used to drinking themselves blind drunk to mask their pain, or using drugs in combination with each other to create enhanced effects, these habits will come to an end in rehab. Substance abuse is not tolerated at any rehab facility. The entire idea is to stop turning to artificial means of avoiding one’s problems, and instead, to confront those problems head-on. Only by understanding how one’s addiction takes a hold in their life, then takes control, can one hope to overcome their addiction. It’s a hard choice, but to consider it means that one has gotten to the point where even they recognize that the addiction is causing them distress.